I am sorry I have not been around for months. My personal life has had a lot going on in it and once again the HP laptop has cracked the sads and needs to go get repaired again.
I write this from my iPhone, among stacks of boxes and heaps of stuff needing to go into boxes. I became a single mother on December 27th. I had come across some stuff on the ex’s computer as I was setting it up to be easier for me to use while awaiting repairs. It is not the first time but the fourth time I had encountered evidence of this kind and each time he swore it would finish. This time he was looking to go further and I suspect he alread had and he didn’t swear it would be finished, he was happy to let me say it was over and have the kids and I leave the house, the sooner the better he said. I don’t know how I did it but I worked out everything I was entitled to and made a budget, I found a rental at 25% of my income, all utilities, savings, paying off debt etc are factored in, I even have enough left over for entertainment and layby a breakup gift to myself! A kitchenaid artisan mixer in candy apple red, way to cheer me up.
I know I can do this, the first year will be the hardest, this is better for the kids and I in the long run and ex and I are being very civil so the kids should not suffer a great deal. I hope to have the laptop back within the next 2 months and I will hook up the Internet and be back to blogging. I should most certainly have the time for it with 1 less person to look after and living in a box about 1/3 of the size of this house and a couple kid free days a week, no excuses then!
Sorry about the lack of paragraphs and spell check if there are any mistakes, I am not able to see past the last 25 words I have typed! I will try and be back soon!
x
Sarah
Welcome back to blogging Sarah. I’m sorry to hear of your tough times and I wish you all the strength you need to get through the next few months and beyond! I, for one, can’t wait for your new projects to start appearing on here, you have great ideas, so I will be checking regularly.
Take care,
Christie
hello tis me, rosey from twitter. wowzer, you must have worked up the courage to boot j outta your life, well out of ‘his hair’ to be more precise. i say yay to you, if was playing dirty then he doesnt deserve you. i like the idea of you being civil for the boys sake, lots of break ups can work if you can leave the bitterness out. good luck little one and i will be praying for your strength.
%*_*% rosey
Gosh, sounds like you’ve had a hideous past month – 2010 can only get better x