I am sorry I have not been around for months. My personal life has had a lot going on in it and once again the HP laptop has cracked the sads and needs to go get repaired again.
I write this from my iPhone, among stacks of boxes and heaps of stuff needing to go into boxes. I became a single mother on December 27th. I had come across some stuff on the ex’s computer as I was setting it up to be easier for me to use while awaiting repairs. It is not the first time but the fourth time I had encountered evidence of this kind and each time he swore it would finish. This time he was looking to go further and I suspect he alread had and he didn’t swear it would be finished, he was happy to let me say it was over and have the kids and I leave the house, the sooner the better he said. I don’t know how I did it but I worked out everything I was entitled to and made a budget, I found a rental at 25% of my income, all utilities, savings, paying off debt etc are factored in, I even have enough left over for entertainment and layby a breakup gift to myself! A kitchenaid artisan mixer in candy apple red, way to cheer me up.
I know I can do this, the first year will be the hardest, this is better for the kids and I in the long run and ex and I are being very civil so the kids should not suffer a great deal. I hope to have the laptop back within the next 2 months and I will hook up the Internet and be back to blogging. I should most certainly have the time for it with 1 less person to look after and living in a box about 1/3 of the size of this house and a couple kid free days a week, no excuses then!
Sorry about the lack of paragraphs and spell check if there are any mistakes, I am not able to see past the last 25 words I have typed! I will try and be back soon!
x
Sarah